It was everything based on a misconception. It was never about dominance and submission. Such a view now appears so simplistic and limiting. It is about an act of love expressed through intense labour from one side, and a total surrender on the other. And of course, none of the two is easy. The first needs advanced skills and knowledge together with a vast amount of energy, while the second requires an absolute and unconditional trust; so surrender can occur. In many ways, surrender is also an advance skill. A skill essential in living a fulfilling life, where we frequently must surrender our dubious little egos so we can find ourselves present in the moment, making the most of the absolute beauty that surround us.