in the sex positive space...

The dark-rooms, often found in our sex-positive spaces, as a concept, is kinda sex-negative. It now looks as it came from an era of guilt and hide, deep down a 1990s dungeon. The intentions were the best and the legacy immense, but the new sluts learn to be ethical, so they can come out of hide. As we start taking pride in our research and practice, the dark-rooms become irrelevant. In the sex positive space, there is nothing dark and nothing hidden; everything is crystal clear, well lit, and transparent.


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